So recently, I was agonizing over a crush. He hasn’t texted me in a week, but his transaction history seems to indicate that he’s really busy eating pizza with his friends. And a friend of mine who clearly took pityon the pathetic rationalizations she was witnessing at me down and said, “You know, my mom had the best piece of dating advice about how to tell if someone likes you or not. Yeah? Is it in his transaction history? No. How often he initiates texts? I made a chart No. If they like you, you’ll know and if they don’t, you’ll be confused. What?!Yeah, I’m sorry. There you have that easy.
That’s how easy it is. I don’t need to give you a three minute video for this shit. The average person Instagram 150 times a day ,so guess what? Even though we like to tell ourselves that they’re busy, or they’re shy, or they’re intimidated. Nope! Stop making excuses It’s simple, really it’s simple. If you’re upfront with your interest and who you are and they aren’t reciprocating, They are not your person! Move on. There’s a billion other fish in the sea, but there’s also a lot of trash.
Oh, there’s a lot of trash, and you’re going to be out there cleaning up the beach looking for one solid shiny fish to bring home,but you’re wading through water bottles and plastic bags and mixed signals. So if you’re not getting a green light I am now.
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