Today as you know is TLC Thursday, and you know what we’re going to talk about . Today we’re going to go into The Do’s and Don’ts of Dating. So here at TLC as you know, we focus all about relationships. But a lot of you are not in a relationship and probably out there mingling and in the dating world. But what I’m finding is that we are committing some crimes here ladies, and if you’re out in the dating world I’m going to get into what to look out for, and what to stop doing. So here we go the Do’s and Don’ts of Dating. DON’T: Talk about your ex or past relationships. that totally reminds me of my dog that I had with my ex

” If you are going on a date remember that you don’t need to get into a soft story about what happened in your past, and what your last relationship was like. Your current dating partner does not want to hear that. DO: Answer questions honestly, but just keep in mind that you don’t have to go in detail. For instance, if the guy you’re on a date with asks you “So when was your last relationship .

” It’s fair to say “Three months, you know, one week ago, one year ago.” That’s perfectly okay, but you definitely don’t need to get into why your past relationship didn’t work and how you’re feeling with it. DO: Talk about yourself. DON’T: Talk about yourself in excess. ”  you look like   my god. I totally like climb Mt. Zion, swimming.

I swim every single day in these dates you’re here to get to know another person. You guys are here to get to know each other and as nerve-racking a date can be, just remember that you’re not going overboard and vomiting all over the place about who you are, what you do, what you like, so much to the point where everything reverts back to you.

 Remember if you’re getting nervous just breathe and get to know this person. That is the whole intention of a date. DON’T: Drink too much. It’s perfectly normal to get those nerves and feel a little bit shy on your first date, and the first thing that comes across your mind may be getting a little loose with a few cocktails, but don’t get too drunk. You don’t want this man to see your crazy side just yet.

DO: Have a one to two drink minimum. I know that we want to loosen up a bit and maybe we have these nerves, and maybe that’s the first thing that you want to go to, but give yourself a limit. Give yourself enough to loosen up, but still where your c erent, and able to really take in this date. Another reason why you don’t want to drink too much, is you don’t want to get sick in front of your date. That’s gross. DON’T: Dominate the date ladies. “Are you sure you sure you want to order that . Because last time I had that I really didn’t like out I mean I’m not sure if you’re gonna like it but I really wouldn’t recommend you doing that.   and then   no after – I don’t just complete show you.” Again we talked about how uncomfortable first dates are, and it’s very natural everyone goes through that, uncomfortable you know time. However do not think that you can get over that uncomfortable hump, by choosing your date, where you want to go, what you want to eat, choosing for your partner. If you’re dating a man ladies, let him be a man. Don’t dominate over the date, and/or the conversation.

Like we said before, we don’t want to speak in excess about yourself you want to get to know the person, but sometimes when we get nervous it’s only you know normal for us to try to control everything about the date, don’t. DO: Let the date flow, and get back to your natural energy. You know when you take off the control of you know where the date should go, and what expectations you have on the date, you actually allow room for that other person to feel free, and so what you see is once you release that energy then you’ll notice that the date actually flows a little bit better.

 And this is where you can get to know if this date is actually working and if this is something that you want to you know continue, or if it’s not. DON’T: Talk about marriage or kids on this date. “So what do you feel about marriage . When do you want to get married . How many kids do you want to have . Because I’m thinking about like having like two or three, is that good with you .” You’re trying to get to know someone ladies and the first thing to ever mention about marriage or kids is probably going to scare off any man.


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